one thing i wish for my daughter, is to have friends like I do.
I used to think friends were the people you spend the most time with everyday.
with age & experience, I've learned that isnt the case.
A best friend isnt someone you've spent everyday with over the summer, A best friend is someone you've spent the whole summer without, but you're still just as close as if you had.

I have three best friends. Three friends that I really haven't gotten to spend much time with over the past few years. But at the end of the day, if I call they answer. I don't even live within driving distance of them, but if something were to happen, I would load my baby up in the car & we would go. Because for each mile there is between us, there is a memory that means so much more.

Im not real sure what contributes to a friendship to make a bond that strong. A bond to last against time.  I'm not sure if it was the nights we stayed up just laughing, maybe it was the fights we shared, or all the tears we've shed on each others shoulders. In highschool we were inseparable. They've gotten me threw so much. My parents divorce, my mamow passing, break ups. All of my heartaches were easier when I was with them even if we were just ridding, singing our hearts out to sugarland or taylor swift. After I had Lainey I hit the lowest point in my life. I was a wreck. I didnt even have the courage to show my face & they were still there for me.

Before I got pregnant with Lainey, we didnt hang out for about a year. But when it came time for my babyshower, they were there. The day I gave birth to my daughter, they were there within hours.  Now as I look back I realize that they've always been there.  We're all growing. Growing in different ways, different directions, but I hope to always have them in my phonebook. To grab a bite to eat with, to spend a drunken night with, or maybe just to call & cry if needed. I wish I couldve had a real wedding, just so they couldve been my bridesmaids. When the day comes that they get married, I pray that I will be able to be there.& The day they have their own children.   I hope for our kids are able to play together, like we did. Lainey will probably be their children's babysitter, since I started a little early.


They know my secrets. They know my faults. they know what my but looks like, my husand hasnt even had a whole glimpse of my butt. & no matter how many miles are between us, or how much time has passed since we've shared a laugh, a hug, or even looked at each other, my love & appreciation for them will never change. Other friends will come & go, maybe even best friends, but I dont think I will ever have as many memories, or the lasting connection like I have with them.

 Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.

 "True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation."

 I will always be there for you, through the good times and the bad, the smooth and the rough, or just any other time you need somebody ... Just look for me, and I'll be there for you

 "It is better to be in chains with friends , than to be in a garden with strangers." 

 Friends are like wedgies. They're intimately close. They know you're inner self. And it feels great when you pick out a good one

A friend is someone who accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future.

 Making a thousand friends a year is not a miracle. The miracle is to make a friend who stands by you for a thousand years.

 "I don't remember how we happened to meet each other. I don't remember who got along with whom first. All I can remember is all of us together...always."

 A friend is one who knows who you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still gently allows you to grow

 "You cannot say you've lost a friend. If a friendship is capable of ending, it is because it never existed." 

 The best friend you can have is one you can sit on the porch with and not say a word, then get up and feel like that was the best conversation you've ever had

 A true friend is always be there when the whole world left you, he always cheers you up when the whole world has turned you down and he never asks you to act like an angel but he becomes your angel

 "Friends are like pillars on your porch. Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you." 

 A friend is someone who can see the truth and the pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else

 Friends are like stars, you can't always see them but you know that they're there

 In the end, you always go back to the people that were there in the beginning

 Memories last forever, never do they die. Friends stay together, never say goodbye.

The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that they can grow separately without growing apart

 Friendship is the bond when the ties between two cannot be worn, where selfishness is out of question, and emotion is an art of devotion

 Friends are like fat thighs ... they always keep in touch.

 True friends don't judge you by your actions, they stay with you when no one else will.

 To find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing

Best friends are like a favorite pair of blue jeans; they get better with time.

 A ring is round and has no end, that's how long I want to be your friend

 True friends are like angels. They are precious and rare, and false friends are like leaves, found everywhere

 years from now i wont remember every friday night or the things that more us laugh so hard till our stomachs hurt but... i will always remember that, you were the ones who were there

 "Friends are the Bacon Bits in the Salad Bowl of Life."

 "Do not save your loving speeches

For your friends till they are dead;

Do not write them on their tombstones,

Speak them rather now instead.

 "Time isn't what makes a friendship last...It's love and devotion that keeps the tie between souls." 

 "A person is only complete when she has a true friend to understand her, to share all her passions and sorrows with, and to stand by her throughout her life." 

 "I'd like to be the sort of friend that you have been to me. I'd like to be the help that you've been always glad to be; I'd like to mean as much to you each minute of the day, as you have meant, old friend of mine, to me along the way."